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Ashley: The second time around, after he’d lived in Seattle, he just showed up on my doorstep and kissed me. Also, it really doesn’t say much for platonic friendship if you can only be friends with people you aren’t attracted to.
Kelly: The person I want to hang out with most is right next to me when I wake up.
Kelly: We were good ol’ fashion friends from the fall of 2010 to the fall of 2011. Then we were friends with benefits until I moved to Seattle, and then back to just friends until October of 2013.
Ashley: We met in a college class and slowly became friends.
Kelly: I believe we handled the evolution of our relationship very consciously.
Nothing felt weird to me, but the transitions didn’t just happen on their own.
Dating a friend is widely recognized to be a pursuit fraught with potential complications.
If it works out, great — but if it doesn’t, well, there’s a good chance the friendship won’t survive unscathed.
On the flip side, when we rekindled the flame after college, our friendship and the friendship between our families became one of the best parts about our more-than-friendship.
At each new point, we always had a conversation to find out where we were and how we felt.
I think that viewing relationships as an inevitable thing that happens between two people who are attracted to each other takes away from the emotional vulnerability, and work, that goes into building strong commitments.
We sought each other out, dated, then became friends. We’d find ourselves in the same city – Los Angeles, or Paris – because of our work, and we’d catch up.
I’d ask him for career advice, he’d ask me for relationship advice. I respect friendship more than a fleeting escapade.
Kelly: Well, you spend as much time together as you possibly can, eventually you get irritated for pretty much no reason. One of our goals this year is to spend more time with other people because we need that to avoid some of those moments when we’re staring at each other and thinking, “OMG, GO AWAY!