Dating many women once
Considering how often criminals blame the police once they’re caught, this actually doesn’t surprise me. So yes, be nice, by all means, be a nice guy, a truly nice guy— just don’t put expectations on other people and then get upset when our expectations — that other people didn’t even agree to in the first place — aren’t met by them.
Once we meet a man we really like, we women tend to dive right in.
We all know the current of discourse running through our social media feeds, our text conversations, internet threads and beyond — men bemoan the fact that women just can’t seem to settle down for a “nice guy” like themselves and seek to justify this claim with a gazillion examples of instances where someone is dating a not-so-nice person instead of them, proclaiming boastfully and loudly, Women, on the other hand, are quite clear about their ideas, their expectations, their desires, and their wants, and a quick glance of many of the women writing here on Medium, especially the feminists, will show that women have no shortage of things to say when it comes to their critiques of men in contemporary society and what they want…if only the men who commit to these practices and say these things were listening, but they wrote off women a long time ago as somehow being not worth listening to, while simultaneously complaining about a lack of action or so much as a date.
HELPING YOU CHOOSE A PARTNER WISELY It’s hard to see the red flags when there is only one guy on the horizon.
OPENING THE DOOR FOR PLEASANT SURPRISES I’m sure you’ve heard that you should “throw out the checklist” and not be too picky when it comes to men and dating.