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Finally, I cheated on him, not once, but twice, both one night stands.
The second time was on my birthday—after five years of being in a 'relationship' with this man, he still couldn't remember the exact day of my birthday. When midnight had passed and I didn't receive an email, phone call, or message, I went to a club with some friends, and that's when I went home with a guy.
Around the globe, the responses I get when I mention infidelity range from bitter condemnation to resigned acceptance to cautious compassion to outright enthusiasm.
In Paris, the topic brings an immediate frisson to a dinner conversation, and I note how many people have been on both sides of the story.
Rather than confront the fact that this person and I were emotionally incompatible, I cheated." —Mary, 31"To get my needs met""I felt dissatisfied with the romance/sex in the relationship, even if it was a stable and loving one.
In Mexico, women I spoke with proudly see the rise of female affairs as a form of social rebellion against a chauvinistic culture that has long made room for men to have “two homes,” la casa grande y la casa chica—one for the family, and one for the mistress.Generally, there is much concern for the agony suffered by the betrayed.And agony it is—infidelity today isn’t just a violation of trust; it’s a shattering of the grand ambition of romantic love.I needed a way to end it by making him end it for me.
Cowardice, really." —Gloria, 34"We were emotionally incompatible""I felt all men cheated and so I should just strike first. I was young and didn't know how to process the feelings of isolation in my relationship.Here's what they shared: Why men have cheated"For the first time, women were hitting on me""I cheated on my girlfriend because I could.